Now I'm done Loving you,
You never know how i felt.
You never know how i felt.
Na"Beela"
I love Chocolates as much as i love my FAMILY and FRIENDS. They are my everything!
I am deeply into FASHIONS,eventhough i still cant afford to buy alot of stuffs.
I HATE ANYONE WHO HATES ME~ Anyone who thinks they are soo perfect to be in this world. BIG no no to them!
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"JEALOUSY"
♥Saturday, May 30, 2009, 5:58 PM
When Jealousy Strikes..........Feeling jealous often?? It's normal, especially when someone you like, love and adore,
shows interest in other people (or other person shows interest in them)..
In other way to say this : You wish to get the one u adore pays his/her FULLEST
attention on you..
Jealousy can happen in several differfnt ways (depending on what situation you are in)..
--> Boy Girl Relationship (Also known as BGR)..
--> Family Relations (usually when your parents pays more attention on someone or something
else, instead of you)..
--> Friendship (When you felt that your friends around you adore the other ones
more than they adore you)..
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It Get Even Worst When..........
Your jealousy gets critical -- almost uncontrollable and unbearable..
Jealousy is an emotion that at some point of time can be dangerous..
Believe it or not, jealousy can actually lead to a mental ilness known as
"Paranoia" , in which he/she belief that people hate them and treat them badly..
Those who suffer from this illness sometimes tend to hurt themselves..
Slashing and cutting their arms and sooooo on...
Main reason for them to do that is to try getting more attention from "the one" ..
Or even to prove to "the one" ,he/she really loves him/her..Get it??!!
so that's why it's important for everyone of us to handle our jealousy..
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How The Hell Do We Overcome Our Jealousy?!
Ehh c'mon lahh people!
Everyone of us should start thinking positive..
Throw that NEGATIVE thinking of yours away from your BRAIN..
I know it's hard, but hard work pays..You'll never know..
Like what some of the malays said :
"Hilang satu boleh cari lagi satu"..
or "Petik satu kali,sepuluh datang"..
Once the relationship between you and him/her failed,
there's only one reason to it..
Obviously,there's NO FATE between you and him/her..
Soo MOVE ON!!
Jodoh datang sendiri dengan kehendak Allah..
Fate comes to you by itself..
But of course, you will have to work hard for it..
"Tepuk sebelah tangan,takan berbunyi" pon..
There 's many other ways to overcome jealousy..
--> Get closer to him/her..
~But it is also important for you to leave that person some space for him/herself..
Cause he/she might not like it..Everyone needs FREEDOM,remember?
Even YOU,i'm sure..
--> Do something to own him/her..
~ I mean excluding stupid acts..
It's more like......if that person you like doesn't know that you have develop "that"
feelings for him/her,maybe you should start confessing..
or if you are shy to tell him/her,give some hints..
--> Think positive..
~ Don't always think like as if there's only one girl/boy in this world for you to like..
There's tons of them--Uncountable..
Come to think of it..maybe there's someone else in this earth who likes you..
And when you found out,you like him/her too,then there's "chemistry"
between the both of you..
--> Knowing him/her..
~ Befriend him/her first..Get to know that person well..
(What type of person is he/her :Playboy, Sincere, faithful, Immature etc)..
Then you'll know your true feelings for him/her..
If you suddenly like him/her for NO reasons,even if your relationship works,
it wont really work well..*touch wood*..
That is more like what i call "CRUSH" and not "LOVE"..
Originally By : Nabila aka Beela..=)
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